Friday, February 25, 2005

Oscars

I have never seen so few of the Best Picture nominees. Typically, I see them all or all but one by awards time. This year, I've only seen Sideways.
But I'm still a betting woman. It's a close call between Aviator and Million Dollar Baby. Even though Aviator (except Cate Blanchett) received mostly appalling reviews Scorcesse is campaigning really hard and I bet the Academy feels like they owe him won. MDB because it's the most talked about movie of the year and Clint didn't win last year -- and after seeing Mystic River, that loss was justifiable. Sideways might be the dark horse split vote a la Chariots of Fire, but the odds are against it.
For what it's worth, and this year it's about a nickel, my predictions follow. You can laugh at me on Monday.

Director: Marty or Clint, in tandem with picture
Actor: Jamie Foxx (Don Cheadle is my favorite)
Actress: Annette Benning, but Hilary Swank if MDB takes it
Supporting Actor: Clive Owen or Thomas Haden Church -- they won't give it to Jamie Foxx in 2 categories
Supporting Actress: Cate Blanchett, unless Virginia Madsen gets the token nod to Sideways
Writing Adapted: MDB
Writing Original: Eternal Sunshine... which should have been nominated for picture
Editing: winner of picture
Cinematography: Aviator, by virtue of being the only film nominated in this category up for best picture (although there might be a nod to House of Flying Daggers but I seriously doubt it)

More Murakami

Interview in LAT with Murakami. I particularly like this:
Murakami acknowledges that "Kafka" is not an easy plot to follow. But he says readers generally liked it. "Some readers are very smart and they understood almost everything," he says. "Some got it almost all wrong. But as a whole they accepted my story and had a good time reading the book. "That's a great thing," he says. "To be understood is not the issue."
It's not so much that the plot is labyrinthine or even convoluted. Murakami's reader just needs to open his/herself to the unfolding of the story and trust that he's is taking you on a journey that will ultimately be worthwhile. That, and not plot, is the job of a novelist. Which is why a book like his Wind-Up Bird Chronicles or Rushdie's Midnight Children is so incredibly rewarding. You are all over the map, but you keep coming back to a few central rest stops and each time you appreciate and understand them a little better. I think Kafka's journey to the center of the forest, and his journey to the center of the prophecy, parallels this, the quest of the reader.

Thursday, February 24, 2005

On domestic bliss and Murakami

When I came home last night I passed Eli on his way out. We had a very cute marriage moment. I had just finished the new Murakami book, he had just finished Gilead, so we swapped. Aw. My man's turned into quite a reader. I love a man with a book. A good book that is. A man with his nose in Grisham is intrinsically non-sexy.
Kafka on the Shore was fabulous. Of course. (Our next cat will be named Murakami.) It's more in the vein of Wind-up Bird Chronicles and Hard Boiled Wonderland etc. than his realistic, man-waxing-nostalgic-about-lost-teenage-love novels, but more optimistic, slightly less inscrutable. Now that I've finished I can read the reviews.

40% gestated

Just went to my new doctor. The office is very nice. Much smaller and calmer than the office where I used to go. The new doctor seems nice and skilled, but I still miss my doctor. Waaaa!

I rock

Yesterday I was simply too drained from Tuesday night's workshop to even think about posting. It was reassuring to get to class and hear everyone asking each other if their calves were killing them. Mine feel much better now, thank you.
I am very glad I didn't fink out. It was very gratifying at the end of the night to dance a full complicated five minute choreography. When we split the class it was amazing to watch everyone else dance -- it seemed so much longer and more impressive when it wasn't me bouncing and running around and struggling to remember all the steps and not forgetting to shimmy through the whole thing. Abeer Will was truly amazing and it was a very rewarding experience. Hopefully next time she's in town I won't be pregnant!

Tuesday, February 22, 2005

Whupped

I officially had my butt kicked last night. I attended the first of two Bedouin dance choreography workshops with Abeer Will, an Egyptian dancer who lives in Germany. Even if I weren't pregnant and still a touch under the weather, three hours of dance would have done me in. The Bedouin style is a lot bouncier than classical Oriental and Abeer moves fast. Ugh. All day I have been comtemplating wussing out and not going to the second part tonight. I've already paid, so I think I will give it a shot. I can always leave early if I get too worked up. This whole accelerated heart rate thing is not a myth.
Not only was my physical stamina challenged, but my mental stamina as well. Running for a few hours may have a lot higher impact -- especially if you're not taking any breaks to break down a step -- but you're making the same repetitive motions. After a couple hours it is difficult to absorb new information.

Friday, February 18, 2005

Tetzaveh 2003

Here is a two-year old drash I wrote about this week's parasha:
The ultimate spiritual goal of many religions involves forsaking the material world and ascending to a celestial sphere where one’s soul can dwell in a blissed out state: heaven, Nirvana or a paradise where seventy-two virgins await. According to Rabbi Soleveitchik, Moses thought along these lines until God disabused him of this quest for unearthly rapture, explaining that the intention of spirituality is bringing God down to the material world. At Sinai, the foundation of this undertaking was revealed through the Torah. The parshiot that follow from this point throughout the remainder of Exodus focus on the construction of the Mishkan, a structure that enables the Israelites to make concrete the indwelling of God among them.

God the master developer bestows the Israelites with a blueprint for the Mishkan and, this week, a pattern of dress and decorum for the priests who enter it. To a cynic with an historical bent, this construction consisting of materials not commonly found in a desert and the institution of the priesthood were perhaps addenda later inserted by the P source: Temple priests legitimizing their role as authentically stemming from desert days. As intellectually compelling as this argument is, it is more imaginatively compelling to ponder a people freed from bondage, seeking a place of their own and striving to welcome the Divine Presence as a permanent resident in their camp.

Last week’s parsha recounted how, in preparation for crafting the Mishkan, gifts were accepted from every person whose heart so moved them. These materials were donated out of love, not carried on the backs of slaves. In Egypt, the Israelites constructed buildings for the pharaohs; now they expend labor for God’s sake. Or rather, they work at the behest of God, but who is the beneficiary of the Mishkan?

The God who travels in a pillar of smoke and a pillar of fire cannot be contained in a box, even one lined with gold. At this point in their history the Israelites are not exactly adept at understanding abstract concepts. They possess an overwhelming need for tangible and constant expressions of God’s nearness, whether through miracles or the reassuring presence of God’s conduit, Moses. In fact, this need for a continual link between them and the nearness of God is illustrated by the story of the Golden Calf, situated at the heart of this narrative cycle. The directives for building and tending the Mishkan are in a symbolic language the people can understand. In other Near Eastern religions exultation required that a deity have a throne room of its own. (Even today, there are those who cannot get past the comic book image of a white bearded man enthroned in the clouds.) The difference here is that the heart of the tent and curtains and nestling boxes of the Mishkan, unlike a reliquary, does not contain a relic or an idol invoking or symbolizing the remote deity. It is this hollowness that permits its hallowness. And like the materials used in its construction that were gifts from the heart, so too is it a reminder of the space people must make in their hearts for God.

When demanding a sacrifice, God typically says, "bring Me" or "make Me." When instructing the import of pure olive oil for the ner tamid in the opening of today’s parsha, God states, "Bring to You." This light is not for the benefit of God. Certainly lighting a fire for God, who first appeared to Moses as an unconsumed flaming bush and descended upon Sinai in fire, would be bringing coals to Newcastle. God is the giver not receiver of light and, ever since God created order out of chaos with the command, "Let there be light" and determined that the light was good, light has delineated the sacred from the profane.

The ner tamid is the only mitzvah related to the Mishkan that has remained intact, burning as an eternal light in front of most synagogues’ arks, although I doubt kindling is the appropriate verb describing changing light bulbs. But this kindling is also a precursor to ritual candle lighting. Havdallah, signifying the conclusion of Shabbat, literally means "to distinguish." This distinguishing is not just between day and night, but marks the passing of time in a more metaphorical sense: whether opening or concluding Shabbat or holidays, observing a yartzeit or even lighting birthday candles, light consecrates time. And, since we are measured out in days, light is life.

But light is not just life, it is life lived well. Proverbs states that, "The path of the righteous is like radiant sunlight…The way of the wicked is all darkness; they do not know what makes them stumble." The Torah is a beacon, its words bestowing safe harbor to whomever studies them. Nehama Leibowitz points out that this approach is eminently pragmatic: the study of Torah makes one wise and prevents one from falling into error. An alternate approach regards the ner tamid itself not as a symbol of the Torah studied but of the commandment performed. Just as a lamp supplies light to others without diminishing it own, so too do mitzvot perpetuate themselves. Adherence to the mitzvot sets a spiritual refining process in motion. Even the word ner is taken as an acrostic for nefesh ruach, implying that spiritual life requires regular kindling.

Moses is instructed to initiate the bringing of oil for lighting, although he is not named directly. Much ado is made over the absence of Moses’ name in this parsha, the only such omission in the last four books of the Torah. The Vilna of Gaon mundanely explains that this parsha falls the week associated with Moses’ death and he is not named out of deference. To other commentators this anonymity is indicative of Moses’ humble and gracious willingness to share the limelight with his brother.

More dramatically, this erasure is attributed to Moses’ reluctance to accept God’s mission at the burning bush. In a midrash God says to Moses, "I am telling you, ‘Go!’ and you tell Me, ‘Send by the hand of someone else!’ I will pay you back! When the Mishkan is constructed, you will expect to become High Priest, and I will tell you, ‘Call Aaron to be appointed High Priest!’" Thus, Moses is omitted from the parsha and the priesthood as a poignant punishment. This interpretation portrays a jilted Moses both envious and jealous of Aaron. Envy is wanting what someone else has whereas jealousy is not wanting someone else to have what you have; essentially, Moses envies Aaron’s appointment and is jealous of his brother usurping his relationship with God.
The medieval scholar Alsheikh smoothes out this somewhat unkind portrait by linking the exclusion of Moses to the double pronoun formula of "you-yourself" that replaces the familiar "and God said to Moses" three times in this parsha. The three instances where this is used – commanding the Israelites to bring oil, consecrating Aaron and his sons to serve as priests, and requesting artisans to make vestments – God reassures Moses by emphasizing that even the roles in which Moses does not directly partake are fulfilled through him. Although he does not light the lamp or manufacture the garments, Moses makes spiritual illumination possible. He is the facilitator, investing and dressing others to serve as emissaries to the divine in his stead. Unlike Aaron, Moses cannot found a dynasty: he is unique and his intensely personal relationship with God cannot be inherited or replicated.

When asked why he favored priests in his studio’s films Louis B. Mayer, the Jewish founder of M-G-M, declared, "Rabbis don’t look dramatic. A priest has all these trimmings and all this stuff." (Coincidentally, a search on the Internet Movie Database revealed he died the same year Paramount made The Ten Commandments.) In true Cecil B. DeMille fashion, an entire chapter is dedicated to detailing the haberdashery of Aaron and his sons. The colors and design of this garb are the hallmarks of royalty and, like Joseph’s coat of many colors, they signify a singling out, an election. But this election, Cassuto asserts, flows from the will of God, not from the people.

Their elaborate getup separates the priests from the people. This dynasty of kohainim are to replace Moses as the intercessor between God and the Israelites, with Moses consecrating them and commissioning their formal attire. God specifies that these garments are for dignity and adornment or, in the old fashioned translation, for splendor and for beauty. They enhance the dignity of the wearer and imbue him with an aura of splendor, albeit a shallow earthly imitation of the splendor of God, whom they serve. But with this emerges the dilemma of having the man fit his suit.

Akedat Yizhak points out that throughout the Bible the same terms refer to both human qualities and clothing, indicating that inner character is recognizable by outward actions. But these vestments are not a window to the soul as much as they facilitate the transformation of Aaron and his sons into holy office. For actors, putting on a costume is often the most effectual final step for completely inhabiting a character. The elaborate attire of the priests, with each item perfectly in place, becomes a metaphor for investing oneself with good moral qualities. The high priest’s diadem inscribed with "Holy to the Lord" and the breastplate inscribed with the names of the twelve tribes indicates that he is holy because God is always on his mind and the good of the people in his heart.

Through donning the vestments, the high priest becomes fully invested, transcending the merely personal and striving for a pure consciousness, allowing the holy clothes to make the man. Yet there are dangers in this. Avivah Gottlieb Zornberg reminded me of The Non-Existent Knight, a novella by Italo Calvino, a fantastic author sadly neglected by American readers, and I feel no guilt taking advantage of an opportunity to promote him. The protagonist of this story is Sir Agilulf, a knight in the wars of Charlemagne. So completely does he identify with his sparkling white suit of armor and so impeccably does he follow his rituals, he simply does not exist – there is no one under the visor. He is his armor and his armor is him, "doffing and donning make no difference;" he is fully invested in his attire.

As Zornberg sees it, this is one quandary of ritual garments, the role completely subsuming human identity. On the other end of the spectrum is the hazard of the wearer succumbing to the insincerity of the material world. Clothing is indispensable but, like all self-representation, there is the risk that it obscures the inner truth; Hamlet exclaims "Seems, madam! nay, it is; I know not ‘seems’… But I have that within which passeth show, These but the trappings and the suits of woe." In the state of Denmark, there is dissonance between mourning clothes and inner sentiment.

Although there is the risk of fine attire becoming self-glorifying and a vain end in itself, rather than a means to dignity and splendor, good craftspeople bridge the gap between representation and reality by exercising contemplative power, kavanah. Fine craftwork is wearable art and, like art, it can elevate the wearer and viewer. Seeking refuge from the throngs in the Art Institute’s recent exhibit on the Medici and Michelangelo, I snuck downstairs where the textile department held a quiet sister show. The intricate fabrics on display were splendorous and just looking at the velvet I could sense its weight. Imagine the strength of character necessary to properly wear the High Priest’s robe, sash, ephod, breastplate and frontlet heavy with symbolic meaning.

God, often described as girded in light, made the first clothes, garments of skins for Adam and Eve. Unlike tilling soil, building cities or any other mark of civilization that humans learned on their own, clothing was providentially provided. Benno Jacob explains that clothing is the primary and necessary distinguishing mark of human society, not merely a social convention but an extension of the work of creation. In most cultures women, the biological creators, have been the primary producers of textiles. This was not limited to the domestic front; in Medieval and Renaissance Europe spinning and weaving guilds were among the few trades that admitted women among their professional ranks. Perhaps the Israelite women in the wilderness were the artisans whom God singled out and endowed with skill. A midrash relates that women did not participate in the sin of the Golden Calf; I propose it was because they were too busy carrying out God’s design of the priestly robes to stray from God’s designs. Occupied with sanctifying the material world, they resisted the temptation of idolatry’s short cut to holiness.

Cultural events

  • Last night we saw Heiner Muller's Quartet at Court Theatre. Well, it was a Court production, but it was actually at the MCA. It's based on Les Liaisons Dangereuses. Very loosely. In fact, inspired by Les Liaisons Dangereuses would be more appropriate. As I said to Eli, this is what happens when you let a German interpret a French story. Not to mention making Shopenhauer the pivot point of a play is hardly the key to riveting drama. (Please God, send a Tennessee Williams play my way soon.) I also did not care for Joanne Akailitis' hyperkenetic direction, which did not serve the text well. Sweeping cultural generalization: those Germans sure are obsessed with the scatalogical. Call me narrow minded, but I just can't think of anything less sexy than poop.
  • Tuesday's German cultural event was infinitely more traditional and subdued. It was the first time I've seen Beethoven's Fidelio. Musically, it is a lovely little opera and I understand why it is rarely given a staged performance: it's just not very dramatic. The quartet in the first act was perfect and Beethoven at his best.
  • The Rake went and heard Michael Chabon speak this week. Sounds like a good talk about the process of writing.

High-Tech Chi-Town

Just because I like any survey where Chicago ranks higher than NYC, LA & (gasp!) San Francisco.

You tell 'em, Bill

Great piece in the LAT from Bill Maher about these kids who are a little unclear on the First Amendment.

Wednesday, February 16, 2005

Teenagers will still get laid, they'll just be even more stupid about it

Excellent op-ed in today's NYT about this abstinence only BS. This is noteworthy:

The upshot is that while teenagers in the U.S. have about as much sexual activity as teenagers in Canada or Europe, Americans girls are four times as likely as German girls to become pregnant, almost five times as likely as French girls to have a baby, and more than seven times as likely as Dutch girls to have an abortion. Young Americans are five times as likely to have H.I.V. as young Germans, and teenagers' gonorrhea rate is 70 times higher in the U.S. than in the Netherlands or France.

Health and hubris

Note to self: never brag about health. When I told my brother this weekend that I was going over to keep a sick friend company he warned me, "Now don't get yourself sick." Rather than just assuring him that I'd be careful, I bragged about how Eli's been sick, friends have been sick, co-workers have been sick, but I've been the picture of blooming pregnant health since I religiously take my vitamins. As they used to say in fourth grade, "Scratch!" I am leakier than a Chicago basement in the summer. I make Kermit sound melodious. I went through nearly a dozen tissues on the el ride this morning. Serves me bloody right.

Monday, February 14, 2005

Happy Hallmark Sanctioned Day of Love!

  • My husband is back from Alabama, unlynched and talking with only a slight accent. I know it's not fair to discriminate against an entire region, but I am terrified of anything below the Mason-Dixon line. That includes Florida. (I find neither Gators hanging out on golf courses nor Disneyland on steroids tempting. But I wouldn't mind visiting the Keys or seeing a manatee!) Eli's friend says that there are entire areas in 'Bama that not only will no black person tread, but even he won't go. Yikes.
  • One of the advantages of Eli being out of the house (which happens a lot less often than one might think) is that I got to play my Kate Bush albums and dance around. It was like being a teenager again and finally being home alone.
  • My amazon order just arrived and it weighs more than Cherubino. All the books are hardcover. Guilt free hardcover, since they were purchased with a gift certificate. The biography of Alexander Hamilton (so handsome on the $10) is over 800 pages.
  • I met with the developers of our house yesterday and the issues were settled quite amenably. They are even finishing the floors again, which I didn't think was essential. And they promise good water pressure in all rooms. Well, the rooms where there should be running water. All we need is for their attorney to return from vacation and the process will proceed.
  • A friend was sick this weekend so I brought over Brazil to watch. One brief scene depicts a train car full of business men sitting down with only one person standing up and holding on to a rail. It is a woman. The camera then pans to the cane she is holding. Sounds like my el ride. Hopefully by the time I am enormous and tummy heavy one of those frat boys will give up their seat. But I won't count on it. In my experience, it is almost always women who get up and offer their seat to the eldery or someone on crutches. Wolves, I tell you, wolves. Did their mothers suck or did they just not listen to them?

Friday, February 11, 2005

More Neal

Great interview with Neal Stephenson at Reason.

Wednesday, February 09, 2005

Books overdue

First off, anyone who read Michael Chabon's The Amazing Adventures of Kavalier and Clay and did not like it is either irredeemably pretentious, a complete philistine or from another planet. So I am positively predisposed to anything he publishes. A couple Fridays ago I picked up his latest offering, The Final Solution. It's a book, in as much as a few pieces of paper sewn between two hardcovers constitutes a book, but it isn't quite enough to stand on its own. Michael, I know you need braces and college money for those four adorable children, but if you're going to put out a short story and have me shell out $11.53 on amazon, please, write a few more and put out a short story collection. Aside from my feelings of robbery, it was very touching and compelling (Sherlock Holmes! Kindertransport survivor! A talking parrot! I am so there!) but I wish I had just read it in the New Yorker.
I also recently read Sarah Waters' sophomoric effort, Affinity. Eh. Very predictable and essentially well-written trash. (The lady was nominated for a Booker, but I'm not so sure what that means anymmore.) I kept hoping that the spiritualism wasn't just a hoax and Selena Dawes would posses annoying Margaret's body like in a Lois Duncan novel.
I am a couple hundred pages into Amos Oz's A Tale of Love and Darkness. So far, this is the most satisfying read this year and I am sure I will write gobs about it soon.

Various and Sundry

I am in no mood to wrestle with the waterfall calculation I'm supposed to finish by tomorrow. Here are some musings:
  • Ash Wednesday has a way of sneaking up on me. I have to fight the urge to say, "Excuse me, do you know have some shmutz on your forehead?"
  • As of today, this pregnancy is 35% complete. Woo hoo! I feel great now, except for the whole clothing issue. Plus, the results of the Ashkenazi panel/first trimester screening showed that I am a perfect genetic specimen. Well, from the hereditary disease standpoint. The poor kid is still going to be myopic and need orthodontia but better that than Tay-Sachs!
  • We had our housing inspection yesterday. It was long and there are a lot of issues, but nothing drastic. Any work that we will insist they perform is work that any buyer would want. Like running water in the upstairs bathroom.
  • So many articles about Mireille Guiliano in the NYT. What she has to say makes a lot of sense, but she is oh so Parisienne in the contempt she shows for everyone who does not follow her ethos or share her physique. This sentence I loved: "She says she is constantly appalled that American cocktail parties are filled with chatter about diets, a subject that shouldn't be deemed proper conversation." Amen! I loathe it when the conversation turns to compare-and-contrast my starvation diet to yours. When I am socializing I don't want to be lectured about how the avocado I am eating is the root of all evil and how I simply must cut my carbs. Gauche gauche gauche! If two women want to discreetly exchange information regarding their latest fad diet, which won't work any better then the one they were on last week (or, on the rare occasion one wants to ask a fit and sane woman what her secret is), they have every right to talk about it amongst themselves in much the same way they would ask for advice on how to treat a yeast infection. Not at the dinner table in front of everyone! But, for the record, just as I don't want to know how much money you make, I don't want to know your weight or how many calories you consumed yesterday.
  • And now for something with substance: Ayelet Waldman has a great piece in Salon today. I love her.

Tuesday, February 08, 2005

Bad education in censored phrases

The phrase, "It wasn't as good as Talk To Her," has been officially banned. Whenever we see an Almodovar film the first thing Eli says is the aforementioned infuriating sentence. It's like seeing Sunset Boulevard and saying, "It wasn't as good as Double Indemnity." Or listening to the White Album and complaining that it's no St. Pepper's. If you're comparing films within Almodovar's oeuvre, then it is a valid statement, but not as the first thing out of your mouth when the credits roll. He has admitted to his errant ways and repented.

That written, Bad Education is the best film I have seen that was released in 2004. This year I have only seen one of the Oscar nominees thus far (Sideways), but I seriously doubt that any of those studio produced monoliths can even compare to the potent images of an Almodovar film. The man is like Picasso, he is creating his own iconography. He is the true inheritor of the French new wave.


Monday, February 07, 2005

Inspector General

We have a signed contract - woohoo! Tomorrow is the physical inspection and we just hired an attorney. Eli asked me, "Does this seem to be happening really fast?" It does, but we're not set to close until March 31, so the circus will slow down a bit.

Thursday, February 03, 2005

House!

We're putting an offer in on a house tonight. Not the one that needed work, but a gorgeous little rehab with an enormous back deck and yard. I am way behind in my word count on my d'var Torah that I'm giving this Saturday, so I have no time to gush, but here is the link for a virtual tour of what will (after negotiation, attorney review, etc.) hopefully be our house.

Tuesday, February 01, 2005

Maternity Clothes

I don't need maternity clothes yet but, man, my clothes aren't fitting so well. I am down to 3 or 4 skirts and a pair of draw string pants that feel comfortable. I am only starting to pooch a bit, but I have lost my waist and I really miss it. I bought a pair of maternity pants a few weeks ago but, even with the adjustable belt all the way in, they're still really big. Yesterday I wore a skirt that had been comfortable only the week before but, by the afternoon, I had to unhook the top and unzip a bit so I didn't feel miserable. And I've only just realized that most of my sweaters are cropped and only draw attention to my changing figure.

At lunch I went shopping. I went to maternity section at Old Navy and, I swear, they must make those clothes for pregnant teenagers! Perhaps when it's warmer and I'm chubbier I'll buy some t-shirts or a sundress there, but right now there's not a single thing I would wear to work.

At Motherhood I scored with a cute skirt and a jacket for $19.99. Yes, the low amazing price of $19.99. God bless the end of season sale. My coats still fit, but they won't in 6 weeks and it will still be coat weather in Chicago in March. By then the stores will only have spring and summer clothes and I would be screwed, or wearing Eli's poncho. Yikes.

I met this really cute house this weekend

House shopping is a lot like dating. On Saturday we saw this one Victorian house up near Rogers Park. It's like meeting a guy at a party. He seems nice enough, but no instant sparks. Then, you find yourself thinking about his smile, those really nice forearms, that really funny joke he told, the way he offered to walk you to your car. You get a little dreamy. But there are issues. Maybe fixable ones, like wearing white socks with black shoes and trousers. Maybe ones you can overlook and eventually find really adorable, like ears that stick out. Or something that might be fixable, like drinking Budweiser. ("You seem like you have such good taste, I just don't understand why you like drinking urine." Not that I have ever tasted urine but I can't imagine it tastes worse than that shite.) But maybe you meet him a second time and find out that he doesn't know who Duke Ellington is or thinks Dick Cheney is a really great guy.

So, this house on Wolcott. It's huge, charming, great layout. But it needs a new kitchen and HVAC. I mean, I wouldn't even contemplate moving into it without a completely new kitchen. Eventually, I would want to re-do the bathrooms, reglaze a stained glass window and strip the millwork in the livingroom (already stripped in the dining area and is gorgeous!), but those would give me some DIY projects to keep me out of mischief. But a new kitchen will be $15k-$20k and HVAC could run from $4k-$14, depending on zoning and the like. I am pretty sure we could get that knocked off the list price, but then there's the headache of all that work and waiting for the contractor(s) to finish. Is it worth it? We may have to meet for coffee.

Article

This in the Sunday Times. When I saw Amos Gitai's Kadosh I was startled at the 100% bleak picture it painted of ultra-Orthodox life. Perhaps this was a small atypical sect but, despite holding a radically different ideology from me, I can see that there is extreme joy and much goodness in most ultra-Orthodox communities.